Belah Rose invited me to her Delight Your Marriage podcast to talk about about forgiveness, trust, healing and personal recovery.  Click here!

Belah and I have also talked about "God delights in you" and just chilling out in marriage.


1.  Covenant Eyes filtering software is the first line of defense against internet nastiness at the Bruner household.  If you need help figuring out how to deal with devices, here's an article called "The Porn-Free Family Plan" that guides you through the process.  Android smartphone users: I recommend EverAccountable.  It's not a filter so I don't necessarily recommend it for kids. It sends a report of internet and app usage to an accountability partner(s).

2.  Hope After Porn is a free download at Covenant Eyes for women.  It's four women telling the story of healing in their marriages.  Covenant Eyes just updated the book after tens of thousands of downloads, and asked me to write a summary chapter for it, so there you go.  Bonus material.  

3.  Michael Cusick's book "Surfing for God".  There's a review on Covenant Eyes here.  

4.  Pure Desire is another resource that a blog reader told me about a while back.  They have groups in various places, as well as books and videos.  We visited a group near us and felt it was definitely something we could recommend with enthusiasm for men, women, and spouses.

5. Stuff I've written:

 As Soon As I Fell

Posts for Covenant Eyes blog

Posts for my blog

Porn and Your Boyfriend