Have you seen the "Marriage is not for me" article?  It's been all over Facebook the last few days.

The article's author has been married for 18 months, and he had this aha moment:  "Marriage is not all about me."  

For the most part, he's right on target:  stop being selfish.  Put the other person first.   

It's a good principle.  I like it.

But like a lot of good principles, I feel like it needs an asterisk.